One important thing I would like to add:
When you are in "Manual mode", where you select all the gears yourself, the car listens to you, but only to a certain point. Let's say you start from a stop and you have gear 1 selected. You will accelerate, and then you can upshift whenever you want and go through all the gears. But if you have gear 1 selected and you go to redline in 1st, it will automatically upshift to 2nd gear (so that you don't destroy your engine, heh). Also, let's say have 3rd gear selected and you are chilling in 3rd, but then you come to a full stop. At this point, the transmission will automatically go to 1st gear. When you accelerate again, it starts from 1st gear, and then goes to 2nd, and then to 3rd and it will just hold in 3rd gear. Cars just cannot start from 3rd or 4th gear, there is not enough power and car companies figure that most auto drivers probably don't know manual transmission, or at least when they are in manual mode, they still want some "auto driving" done for them. So therefore, every time you stop, the car will go back into 1st gear, regardless of what gear you are in.